SYNC is the only dating app built to reduce its own usage when that usage isn't serving you.
0 to 100. Depletes as you use the app — messages sent, profiles viewed. Regenerates during rest. Low energy triggers a gentle prompt to step away. Your feed quality adjusts accordingly.
A percentage score based on how your conversations are progressing. Are they leading anywhere? Multiple short chats with no depth lowers the score. One meaningful conversation that leads to a planned meet raises it.
Every Monday, SYNC shows you last week: time in-app, conversations started, profile views, meets planned, and your quality score trend. Honest data without judgment.
Energy represents your emotional and mental capacity for connection. It's not a punishment system — it's a mirror.
Burnout is detected when SYNC spots patterns that historically correlate with user regret:
When burnout is detected, SYNC surfaces a prompt — not a lockout. You're an adult. The prompt just makes the pattern visible.
You can voluntarily enter Detox mode at any time. Choose a duration: 4 hours, 12 hours, 24 hours, or 72 hours. During Detox:
When detox ends, everything restores automatically. No guilt. No "welcome back" pressure to reengage.
After 11pm, if you've already been active for more than 30 minutes that day, SYNC will gently note: "Conversations started after midnight have a 60% lower chance of leading to a meet." That's it. You can dismiss it. It's just true.
Every dating app claims to care about users. Most are lying — or at least conflicted. The revenue model requires engagement, and engagement requires you to stay in the app. SYNC tries to resolve this honestly: we charge $4.99/month for Pro, not by selling your time to advertisers. A user who closes the app to go on a date is a SYNC success story, not a churn event.
The wellbeing system exists because we believe users who feel respected by an app become long-term paying users who recommend it to their friends. Your wellbeing is good for both of us.
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